Volume 5, Book 59, Number 382:
Narrated Jabir:
“Allah’s Apostle said to me, “Have you got married O Jabir?” I replied, “Yes.” He asked “What, a vir –
gin or a matron?” I replied, “Not a virgin but a matron.” He said, “Why did you not marry a young girl
who would have fondled with you?” I replied, “O Allah’s Apostle! My father was martyred on the day
of Uhud and left nine (orphan) daughters who are my nine sisters; so I disliked to have another
young girl of their age, but (I sought) an (elderly) woman who could comb their hair and look after
them.” The Prophet said, “You have done the right thing.”